What
is it that we must discard this New Year? What is it that we must clean
out of ourselves? In my opinion, this omnipresent fear is the most insidious
obstacle to our peace, happiness and progress in life.
When I say
fear, I don�t necessarily mean terror. But, rather I mean all that makes
us anxious, nervous, tense and in need of controlling our surroundings.
The root of fear is distrust. We have been betrayed, injured, abused. We
decide that the world and those around us can not be trusted. In
this way, we lose that faith which is so crucial.
What is
the answer? The answer to fear is to firmly root ourselves in God (by whatever
name, whatever form you chose). When we realize that God is always with
us, always for us, we will never be afraid regardless of the circumstances.
Sure, our
family and friends may betray us. They may injure us. But, if we give ourselves
to God, if we make our relationship with Him our first priority then we
will never be broken inside; we will always be cared for.
There
is a story of a very powerful king. This king prided himself on being generous
and caring for all his subjects. He would often boast that no one in his
kingdom was hungry or cold or impoverished. Once, a holy man came to see
the king. The king told the holy man how he provided for everyone in the
kingdom so well. The holy man asked the king to come for a walk. While
they walked in the forest, the king picked up a large rock by the side
of a stream. �Break the rock,� he ordered the king. The king looked surprised
but immediately told his servant to smash the rock. As the rock broke open
they saw a small frog, living peacefully in the nutrient-rich water which
had gathered inside the rock. �Have you provided this as well?� the holy
man asked the king. The king realized that he could not possibly
provide something as perfect, as intricate as this food and shelter for
the frog. He realized that it is really God who provides for all His subjects
We must
realize that if God can provide for even the smallest insects, He certainly
will provide for us. I heard a beautiful story of a young boy on a ship.
The
ship was trapped in a large storm and waves rocked the boat furiously.
The passengers screamed and cried and held each other for dear life. In
the midst of this terror sat a very young boy, calm, composed and angelic.
When asked why he did not cry he answered, �My mother is here, so I know
everything will be all right.� This feeling we must cultivate. If God is
here, if God is with us all the time, then everything will always be all
right.
We take
out millions of dollars (or pounds or rupees�) of insurance to protect
our homes, our property, our cars. But, what about our lives, who will
protect our lives? We must remember our Divine Insurance Company. We must
place all of our faith in Him. He will never betray us, and we will rest
assured knowing that we are in the best of hands.
One
time I was on an airplane flying to Chicago. It was winter time and the
plane hit a great deal of turbulence and stormy weather. The captain�s
panicked voice came over the loadspeaker that everyone should assume crash
position. The passengers screamed; some even fainted. I was sitting next
to a very respected professor. As every thing descended into chaos I was
calmly working on my notepad. �What are you doing?� the professor asked
me. �How can you work? The plane is going to crash. What are you possibly
working on?�
I
told him, �Professor, I am working on my speech. See, I know that I will
be all right. I have perfect faith in God. So, if we survive, I will have
to give a speech on what it was like to survive this crash. And my English
is not so good so I must prepare myself in advance. And if, by chance,
God decides to bring us all home to Him, then I won�t need the speech.
But, at least I am prepared.�
We must
realize that we are God�s children. Just as a child is never afraid when
the mother is near, so we must never fear. Fear immobilizes us. It freezes
us. It prevents us from thinking clearly. And most of all, it serves no
purpose. No tragedy has ever been prevented by fear. No catastrophe has
ever been averted by anxiety. No, calm, serene, wise understanding of the
situation coupled with undying faith is what is needed.
There is
a beautiful story of Swami Vivekananda. He
was giving a speech in America. His message to the world was, �Stand up.
Be fearless. God is with you.� To test his faith, some people staged a
scene during one of Swamiji�s lectures. In the middle of the lecture gun
shots rang out and bullets whizzed past Swamiji�s head. The audience screamed
and ran for cover. Some dropped to the floor to protect themselves. Only
Swamiji remained perfectly calm and composed. Later, he explained as follows:
�the bullet which is not meant to take my life will never hit me, even
if fired from point-blank range. The bullet which is meant to take my life
will kill me, even if I am protected by 100 guards.�
So, this
New Year, this Spring, let us renew our faith in the Supreme. Let us give
away our fears, our anxieties. Let us put all our insurance in the Divine
Insurance Company. Let us realize that everything is just as it is supposed
to be. We are in the lap of our Mother. How can anything go wrong? |